Erotic Lactation: Sexy or Strange?
For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS

Erotic Lactation: Sexy or Strange?

“My question is on the theme of breastfeeding (i.e., a husband orally drawing breast milk from his wife's breasts). I have seen the act called "adult breastfeeding" and even "erotic lactation" on secular sites.”

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Sexual Intimacy for the Elderly
For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS

Sexual Intimacy for the Elderly

Sexual intimacy is a beautiful and meaningful aspect of life that transcends age. For the elderly, engaging in sexual intimacy can bring a renewed sense of closeness and connection with their spouse. While physical changes may occur with age, such as decreased libido or physical limitations, emotional intimacy remains a vital source of intimacy for the elderly. It is important to acknowledge and address any concerns or challenges related to sexual intimacy in this stage of life, seeking professional guidance if necessary. With open communication, patience, and understanding, couples can find ways to continue nurturing their bond through sexual intimacy, ensuring that their love and connection remain strong and fulfilling throughout their golden years.

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The Marital Act, Cardinal Rule, and Pleasure Principles
For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS

The Marital Act, Cardinal Rule, and Pleasure Principles

“In necessary things unity, in doubtful matters freedom, in all things charity.” Augustine

As Humanae Vitae teaches, “it is necessary that each and every marriage act remain ordered per se to the procreation of human life.” Following the example of Dr. Popcak, I have referred to this as the One Rule. Now, however, I prefer to refer to this as the “Cardinal Rule”. I have this preference because a cardinal rule is a rule upon which others depend, not to the exclusion of other rules. Calling the rule that every marital act must be open to procreation the “One Rule” gives the unfortunate impression that there are no other rules.

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