Take the Life Ring!
For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS

Take the Life Ring!

Although the rates are lower than the general population, Catholics do get divorced. Far more live for years and even the rest of their lives in unhappy marriages. For many couples, including those who would say that their marriage is strong, sex is a point of division rather than unity. This can come from a variety of factors. There may be sexual trauma, sex may be painful, there may be a fear of getting pregnant, there may be emotional or physical abuse or neglect. For some couples, sex is a bargaining chip or a manipulation tool.

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Common Objections to Coaching
For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS

Common Objections to Coaching

Even after doing this for a couple of years, I still get excited when I get a new client. I really enjoy helping people to have more satisfying and fulfilling sex lives and in turn better marriages. It has been such a blessing for me to see marriages transform through this process. This transformation is what Catholic Intimacy is all about. It is what we pray for, have masses offered for, and have even suffered for. But not everyone is ready for change.

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Bad Sex: How to Stop Having It
For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS

Bad Sex: How to Stop Having It

So the majority of my clients come to me with one goal in mind: stop having bad sex. Now what makes sex bad looks different for each couple, but by and large the number one reason is that the wife just doesn’t enjoy it. I can help with that. There is no good reason to settle for bad sex.

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Extended Availability for Catholic Marriage and Intimacy Coaching
For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS

Extended Availability for Catholic Marriage and Intimacy Coaching

We're thrilled to announce that our Catholic marriage and intimacy coaching services, led by James Walther, are now available with extended hours to better serve our clients! We're implementing these extended hours as a trial run until at least March 15, 2024. Whether you're a busy professional or a parent with limited free time, we aim to accommodate your schedule.

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What Do I Have to Offer?
For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS

What Do I Have to Offer?

Here’s the big question: what do you have to offer? In other words, why should anyone want to commit themselves to you exclusively for life? That’s a million-dollar question.

Everyone has a type, i.e., certain characteristics that they find attractive. We all know (or knew) what characteristics we are (were) looking for in our spouse. We tend to have pretty lofty ideals. But let’s flip that around. If our future spouse is as magnificent as we imagine, then should we not expect that they too have high standards for who they want to be with? Do we meet the criteria of someone that meets our criteria?

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Expanding Our Horizons: Introducing Online Catholic Intimacy Coaching
For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS For Couples James Walther, MA, ABS

Expanding Our Horizons: Introducing Online Catholic Intimacy Coaching

In light of these evolving needs, we're excited to share with you and get your feedback on a project – the introduction of online Catholic Intimacy Coaching.

First and foremost, it's important to clarify that intimacy coaching is a form of personal coaching or counseling that focuses on helping individuals or couples improve their emotional, physical, and psychological intimacy in relationships.

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