Buy the Stinking Roses
For Husbands James Walther, MA, ABS For Husbands James Walther, MA, ABS

Buy the Stinking Roses

How quickly can we burn through $7? Coffee, soda, snacks, beer, etc. many of us might spend $7 on our way to or from work without hardly thinking about it. Now if it’s a choice between feeding your kids and buying roses, then I’m not saying to neglect your kids. But if you have some discretionary funds, treat your spouse to something special every now and then. When you stop for that coffee, skip the snacks and buy a rose. 

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The Marriage Bed: Holy of Holies of the Family
For Husbands James Walther, MA, ABS For Husbands James Walther, MA, ABS

The Marriage Bed: Holy of Holies of the Family

When you look at your marriage bed, just remember that it is here that lives are conceived to give glory to God for all the rest of eternity and Our Lord went to His cross thinking and loving them. This thought alone should fill us with awe and reverence for this sacred space. If it is the altar, then it is also the cross. It is the cross upon which we sacrifice our pride, our selfishness, our lust, all of our sins and vices. We offer them to God through our spouse.

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Making Out with Your Wife
For Husbands James Walther, MA, ABS For Husbands James Walther, MA, ABS

Making Out with Your Wife

When was the last time that you made out with your wife? Was it the last time that you made love? Was it the last time you had a fight and then could hardly make it to the bedroom in time for some hot makeup sex?

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The Servant King: the Nature of a Husband
For Husbands James Walther, MA, ABS For Husbands James Walther, MA, ABS

The Servant King: the Nature of a Husband

There is an ongoing debate in Catholic circles, especially Traditional Catholic circles, about the appropriate or ideal gender roles in the family. While that is an important topic and one that we will discuss in greater detail in future blog posts, I think that it is important to remember that being precedes action. So the roles of man and wife should flow as an authentic expression of the natures of man and wife.

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